Advice

What is the best advice you were ever given?  From my dad. Its proven so true.  “Even though life is not FAIR, u still have to live for the rest of ur life, once you accept that, it makes everything easier to deal with”

It’s so true. It’s never too late to realize that as I went through so many things in my life. Sometimes, I just wonder why life is so unfair. As time go by, things went wrong, ya suffering life, ya facing failures, things make ya unhappy, etc, ya will reveal what the definition of “Life” is. 

Sometimes people just keep wondering why their life is so different to the others, and why they have to suffer but others don’t. There is no answer for it! May be u can say because it’s LIFE!

I remember one time, I had a very depressing moment, and everything around me looked grey; always think of negative side. Dad is the person who came to my life and save me at that moment. He came to me, held me and gave me advises which completely alter my thought. I shouldn’t act like an innocent girl. It’s time to be mature. I took his advice, cooling down my emotion, try to find a resolution and be positive. His advice taught me a lot of things. Life is suffering. But not because of that ya always face with sorrow.  Accepted also is a good method to apply to life. Knowing how to accept is make thing go smoothly and easily. That’s what I’ve learnt from my dad. 

I hardly give out my advice to someone. I’m not saying am a good advisor, even though I know I can help people by giving out advices but I don’t really want to do that. Again, it’s just because LI FE IS JUST NOT FAIR.  I’ve learnt that whenever ya help people, if things does go in a right way, they are not going to blame on ya. But when they take your advises and they follow it, but unfortunately things go wrong, the first person they usually blame on is YOU!  So that’s y I don’t want to hear bad things behind me, you can say am selfish, not willing to share experiences or help people, It’s just fine, I prefer that more than people blame it on me when they are getting worse.